{"id":411,"date":"2026-09-02T09:00:18","date_gmt":"2026-09-02T09:00:18","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/cruisecareerpro.com\/blog\/?p=411"},"modified":"2026-09-02T09:00:19","modified_gmt":"2026-09-02T09:00:19","slug":"relationships-on-cruise-ships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/cruisecareerpro.com\/blog\/relationships-on-cruise-ships\/","title":{"rendered":"Relationships on Cruise Ships: The Real Rules and Real Risks"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><em>What the fraternisation policy actually says, what gets people sent home, and how to protect your career.<\/em><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<hr\/>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\">Relationships on cruise ships between crew members are common and, in most fleets, permitted within clear limits. Relationships between crew and guests are prohibited on every major cruise line and are one of the fastest routes to dismissal. Relationships between a supervisor and someone in their own reporting line are almost always restricted, and even where they are not banned outright they have to be declared. The rules exist because everyone lives where they work, and because power imbalances on a ship are sharper than they are ashore.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\">I spent years as an Executive Officer and Food and Beverage Director, leading a team of over 700 crew from more than 40 nationalities. I saw good people build lasting relationships onboard. I also saw good people lose contracts over decisions made in a crew bar at two in the morning. Here is the honest version.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Why Relationships on Cruise Ships Are Treated Differently<\/h3>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\">On shore, a workplace relationship is a private matter with some HR paperwork attached. At sea, three factors change the equation.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><strong>There is no separation between work and home.<\/strong> You share a cabin corridor, a mess, a bar, and a gym with the same people you work with. A relationship that ends badly does not go away at five o&#39;clock. It follows both of you for the remaining months of the contract.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><strong>The hierarchy is formal and constant.<\/strong> Rank on a ship carries real authority over schedules, evaluations, promotions, and disembarkation. That makes any relationship across a reporting line genuinely risky for both people, and it is why companies regulate it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><strong>Everything is visible.<\/strong> Ships are small communities. Whatever you think is private is usually known within a week. That reality matters more than any policy document.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\">If you want a wider sense of what living where you work actually feels like, <a href=\"https:\/\/cruisecareerpro.com\/blog\/is-working-on-a-cruise-ship-right-for-you\/\">this honest self-assessment of cruise ship life<\/a> covers the daily realities in detail.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<h3>What the Fraternisation Policy Usually Says<\/h3>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\">Policies vary by cruise line, so read your own company handbook during onboarding rather than relying on what a colleague tells you. That said, the following pattern holds across most major lines.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><strong>Crew and guest relationships are prohibited.<\/strong> This is the strictest rule in the book. It usually includes visiting guest cabins, socialising in guest areas off duty, accepting invitations from guests, and any romantic or sexual contact. Breaches are treated as gross misconduct and typically end with dismissal at the next port. Manning agencies are informed, which affects your ability to get another contract.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><strong>Crew and crew relationships are generally allowed.<\/strong> Most lines accept that people who live and work together for months will form relationships. What they regulate is conduct: no public displays of affection in guest areas, no impact on your work, and compliance with cabin visiting rules.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><strong>Supervisor and subordinate relationships are restricted.<\/strong> Either prohibited outright or requiring immediate disclosure so that one person can be moved out of the reporting line. Do not wait to be asked. Declaring it early protects you. Hiding it and being discovered later is what ends careers.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><strong>Cabin rules apply.<\/strong> Many lines restrict which crew accommodation areas you may enter, and officer accommodation is often off limits to non-officers. These rules are enforced by security, not by goodwill.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><strong>Marriage and partner assignments exist.<\/strong> Several lines will make a genuine effort to assign married couples or declared partners to the same vessel. This is a formal process through crew office and human resources, not an informal favour.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<h3>The Risks Nobody Tells You About Beforehand<\/h3>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\">Three that I saw play out repeatedly.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><strong>The contract outlasts the relationship.<\/strong> You may have four more months of working alongside someone after it ends. Think about that before it starts, not after.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><strong>Your reputation travels.<\/strong> Crew move between ships within a fleet and between fleets through the same manning agencies. A reputation for drama, or for repeated policy breaches, follows you into your next interview.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><strong>Promotion becomes complicated.<\/strong> If you are seen to have advanced through a relationship, whether or not that is true, it undermines you with your team. I have watched capable people lose the confidence of their crew this way, and it is very hard to recover.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Harassment Is a Separate Issue Entirely<\/h3>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\">This is the part that matters most, and it is not about romance.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\">Every major cruise line operates a zero tolerance policy on sexual harassment, bullying, and unwanted contact. Under the Maritime Labour Convention, seafarers have the right to a formal onboard complaint procedure and the right to raise concerns without retaliation. You can read the summary of those protections on the <a href=\"https:\/\/www.ilo.org\/international-labour-standards\/maritime-labour-convention-2006-0\/mlc-2006-what-it-and-what-it-does\">International Labour Organization website<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\">If someone makes you uncomfortable, you have several routes: your supervisor, the Human Resources or Crew Purser office, the Staff Captain, or the ship&#39;s designated safety and welfare officer. Reports are documented and investigated. Do not stay silent because you are worried about your contract. Companies discipline the person who breaches the policy, not the person who reports it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\">You can also contact SeafarerHelp, the free and confidential helpline run by the International Seafarers&#39; Welfare and Assistance Network, at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.seafarerhelp.org\/en\/\">seafarerhelp.org<\/a>. It is independent of your employer, multilingual, and available around the clock.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<h3>Practical Advice for a First Contract<\/h3>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\">Five things I would tell any new crew member.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\">1. <strong>Read the fraternisation policy in your first week.<\/strong> It is in your onboarding pack. Know the rules before you need them.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\">2. <strong>Never cross the guest line.<\/strong> No exceptions, no matter how it is framed to you.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\">3. <strong>Declare anything inside your reporting line immediately.<\/strong> Disclosure protects you. Concealment does not.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\">4. <strong>Keep your professional reputation separate from your personal life.<\/strong> Show up on time, do the work, and stay off the drama.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\">5. <strong>Give yourself the first two months.<\/strong> Most crew who wait until they understand the environment make better decisions than those who do not.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\">Staying in touch with a partner at home is its own challenge, and it is mostly a logistics problem. <a href=\"https:\/\/cruisecareerpro.com\/blog\/internet-at-sea-crew-wifi\/\">The crew guide to internet at sea<\/a> covers what connectivity really looks like and how to plan around it.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\">Before you apply for your first contract, get a free CV Evaluation and Review at <a href=\"https:\/\/cruisecareerpro.com\">cruisecareerpro.com<\/a>, including a free ATS score showing how your CV performs against the applicant tracking systems used by cruise recruiters and manning agencies. If you find the platform useful, you can also earn commission by referring others through the affiliate programme at <a href=\"https:\/\/cruisecareerpro.com\/affiliate\">cruisecareerpro.com\/affiliate<\/a>.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<h3>FAQ<\/h3>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><strong>Are relationships between crew members allowed on cruise ships?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\">On most lines, yes, within the conduct rules. Public displays of affection in guest areas are not permitted, cabin access rules apply, and relationships within a reporting line must be declared.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><strong>What happens if a crew member has a relationship with a guest?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\">On every major line this is gross misconduct. The usual outcome is dismissal and disembarkation at the next port, with the manning agency informed.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><strong>Can married couples work on the same ship?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\">Often yes. Most lines have a formal process for assigning married couples or declared partners to the same vessel, arranged through crew office and human resources.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><strong>Do I have to tell HR about my relationship?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\">If the other person is in your reporting line, yes, and immediately. For crew at the same level in different departments, most lines do not require disclosure, but check your own company policy.<\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><strong>What should I do if I am being harassed onboard?<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;height:11pt;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\"><\/span><\/p>\n<p style=\"padding:0;margin:0;color:#000000;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;line-height:1.15;text-align:left\"><span style=\"color:#000000;font-weight:400;text-decoration:none;vertical-align:baseline;font-size:11pt;font-family:&quot;Arial&quot;;font-style:normal\">Report it. 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